Culture of Youth surrounds us. Why? Money. Experience and age are the enemies of consumer culture. Many of us are now youth-less.
There is no scientific evidence to support hand and feet size as an indicator of penis length. I wear size 13s and XL gloves. Call me Microdick.
Dancing is public courtship ritual and sexualisation of the self. White men are therefore sexually repressed as we’ve been told they can’t dance.
Fluid exchange through the softer bits requires effort and negotiation. A tiresome proposition after youth. Lose interest early and civilization improves.
Modern Love: “I love you, too, baby. Let’s move in together, it will be good for us”. Later: “See you in court, bitch!”
When you say you love me it does not mean the same as when I say it to you. Persistent misconnect, a basis of modern love.
Porn’s Consequence: “You want me to do what?!” “You’re not putting that thing there. I’m not your whore.”
Relationships: Discussing feelings leads to more discussion of feelings. Discussion of issues leads to problem solving and constructive change.
An intimate relationship is a concealed death wish. The result? Alone, facing yourself. Full circle. U will die and it won’t be a Disney moment.
Bourgeois Man: Home is stressful, work is stressful, and vacations are stressful. Out with your mobile at your side is stressful (she will txt).
Divorce rates are steady and high. Marriage rates remain high. Few are learning from any of this. Bourgeois marriage no longer useful. Now outdated.
When you’re bourgeois and divorced, parenting becomes a competition. I am losing. Love is economics and I am unemployed.
Children of divorce will soon be the majority. Time to rethink those studies decrying the dissolution of marriage. Broken home my ass.
Single and middle-aged is not a curse but a state of enlightened living. Completeness, companionship, and intimate relations sought with another are understood as impediments to individuation and distractions from facing one’s mortality. That takes courage and commitment. My hand is calloused but my mind is clear.